Never to Say Its Name Aloud

It isn’t easy being me.

Well, it isn’t easy being anyone, I suppose. It’s hard to be Cheryl, Nate, John, Mary, Rafael, Fatima, or Ebeneezer, too. It’s hard to be someone.

Whenever one of us is born there’s a whole world of somethings coming after us. Viruses, bacteria, prowlers, older siblings, stepparents, bullies, peers, math teachers, pass rushers counting mississippis, playground asphalt, hem-gnawing bicycle chains, 49er fans. There is no end to the obstacles and antagonists. And that’s just through grade school.

Later in life there are even worse things causing us consternation. Like progeny. Or Conservatives.

But this particular Tom is having a particularly challenging January in this particular year because his old nemesis has reemerged.

No, actually, I’m not talking about the San Francisco 49ers – although that is an old nemesis that has indeed reemerged as well. And I’m not talking about that awkward, young adult self-doubt that plagued me through the 90s. That latter nemesis was slain, ashes scattered. The other one, in the red and gold, will never die, I know. We’ll see them in NFC Championship game on Sunday with a big ol’ monkey on our back. Winner goes to the Super Bowl. Go Rams.

No, the nemesis I’m talking about I’ve scarcely mentioned over the years because to mention it is to summon it. Like saying the name “Baalberith” out loud and bringing unto you much woe. Don’t. If you did just read that out loud, seek a priest. Or read Carl Sagan. Whatever it is you personally do to banish demons from your world, do that. I just beseech Sebastian. Works every time.

But since my old nemesis has returned, unbidden, I can speak its name.

Pruritis.

I first encountered my old foe when I was but a child, probably in or not far out of grade school. At first it was every few years, but in my teens and twenties my nemesis would come back virtually every year to plague me literally. It would start in a tiny crevice, almost always between the fingers and toes, and it has such a specific twinge that I would know. Pruritis had come. And hell was coming with it.

To expose the demon’s arrival, I had only to walk to the nearest mirror and remove my shirt. The second phase of this usurper’s assault was the hives. Always on both sides of my torso, those little welts of agony. Soon they would be everywhere, and no part of Tom would be unscathed.

And they itch. They itch that itch of the itch of the damned. And dare you scratch them? Nay. For scratching only irritates the Legions of Pruritis, and they strike back harder and spread further upon assault.

In my adult life, from my 30s on, my old nemesis stayed adrift, finding me impossible to conquer. Fewer and fewer encounters. 5 years between at times, or more. Although there was this one year, I would say in mid-2010, when it struck twice in one volume of calendar. May, at first. Then August again. It had never happened twice before, so close together. I shudder to remember that time.

It has been, admittedly, some time since Pruritis returned. Years, I’d say. But three nights ago, I felt that twinge. To the wife I said, “My hell has just begun.” And she knew, as I looked at my fingers, what I meant. She knows me well. “Oh no!” she exclaimed, as leading ladies will when their heroes are struck.

I am struck.

A few days in now to this latest base assault and I can feel it starting to subside. It only ever lasts a few days – for which I am grateful. To see me during each day you would not know that under my garments I am scaly and red and blistery and coarse. I ride it out. I persevere. Like Peter Parker, I endure.

It is only January in this year of 2022, but already I have faced many a foe. On the 9th of this month those 49ers beat my Rams for the sixth time in a row. Two days later I was positive for Covid. By the 24th, Pruritis had come.

I itch right now. I itch everywhere, but I am not in agony. Not like the last two days. I am recovering, as I did with Covid, as I will from Ninereria on Sunday when we vanquish that demon (Baalberith-willing).

It isn’t easy being me. Not as easy as it looks, anyway. I cut. I bleed. I cough, I sneeze. I itch. I itch a lot.

But let us leave our demons behind us now, this January of 2022. Man your stations, mount your stallions, and steel your resolve. What does not kill us only makes us stronger. Every challenge we face only levels us higher. Diamonds are formed under pressure.

Surely, then – after these hard times – we must all now be a cut above. ✊🏽

16 thoughts on “Never to Say Its Name Aloud

    1. LOL! In my defense, I love conservatives! They just don’t like me. 😉

      And, yeah, I’ve heard others tell me it’s like when they had shingles, but I get it every year or so. Luckily, only for a couple of days. I don’t really know what to call it!

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    1. Yeah, I don’t really know what to call what I have; pruritus is just a fancy word for “itching.” I’ve always called it an outbreak of the “itchies.” When I was young I just figured everybody got it for 3-4 days once a year. Later I found out that I just have skin that’s “prone” to these breakouts. The causes are uncertain, and the triggers could vary. One year, they say, I could have gotten it from stress. Another from pollen or some other allergen in the air. It could happen from excessive alcohol use, I’m told, or from sweating in tight clothing. Could be the same trigger every year (unlikely, they say, because it can literally come in any month, any year) but it’s most likely from different triggers each time. The real mystery is why some are prone to these all-body outbreaks and some are not. 🤷

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      1. It so is. Luckily it’s few and far between and only a couple of really bad days. I am concerned, however, how my body will be when I am older, when the body is prone to such conditions naturally. It may be constant Benadryl for me as a senior. 🤷

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  1. Maybe it’s related the the covid. Did you have a fever? When I was younger, my eczema would flare really badly if I ever had a fever. Also, for a second, I thought the image with this post was the cover of my last book–I had them change the red eyes to yellow but it’s very similar! Maybe Pruritis is The Seventh Devil!

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    1. Omg, maybe so! 😱

      But also, I wondered if this bout was triggered by the Covid, it’s hard to say. Like the doctors say, the trigger could be different every time; we have the skin that our genes gave us!

      Luckily, the spell has passed and all I have now is the afterglow of another Rams playoff win. And, except for a little bit of “tequila monday,” this one feels good!

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  2. I’m slightly late to the party but I hope you’re less itchy now and that the demon—I won’t name it lest I summon another bout—has disappeared back into the depths whence it came.
    Since you mentioned the name Ebenezer I thought it fitting to also mention a real person with that name, an obscure 19th century British poet named Ebenezer Jones. When he was a schoolboy a stray dog came to the door of his school. The schoolmaster picked up the dog. Jones, a small boy, stood up and shouted, “Thou shalt not!” threw the dog down the stairs anyway. It’s a sad story but Ebenezer Jones still stands as a brave individual willing to stand up against cruelty.

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    1. We all need to be braver in the face of adversity, whether that adversity is the hellspawn Pruritis, a maniacal demagogue named Don, or a schoolmaster who’s fat and psychopathic wife, at night, would thrash him within inches of his life.

      All in all, they’re all just bricks in the wall.

      And we are the bricklayers. No, we’re the picks that smash the bricks. Whatever we are let’s not just sit on the wall. Remember what happened to Humpty?

      I feel better by a lot, Chris, yes. Thank you!

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